If you have genital herpes, you are going to be okay.
Herpes is not life-threatening, and it’s very common.
There are certain lifestyle changes that you may need to adapt to,
but your sex life is not over.
While there is no cure for genital herpes, there are treatment
options that can help reduce the severity and/or frequency of outbreaks.
How Do You Get Herpes?
Herpes is extremely contagious and is easily spread from infected fluids,
like saliva and genital secretions, or skin-to-skin contact
with a herpes sore or the affected area.
HSV-1 and HSV-2 can both be spread through:
- Vaginal sex
- Oral sex
- Anal sex
Even if a sexual partner’s skin is free of herpes sores,
it is still possible to get herpes, this is called viral shedding.
Though visible sores may not be present, the virus is still transmittable.
The CDC states that herpes is not transferred through
the use of toilet seats, bedding, towels, or swimming pools.
Most cases of HSV-2 are transmitted through physical
contact with someone who already has the disease,
but it is recommended to avoid sharing drinks or other
inanimate objects that may have recently come
into contact with infected saliva or secretions (such as sex toys).
Herpes can also be transmitted from mother to
infant during childbirth, especially if the mother has active genital sores.
Because a new born with birth-acquired herpes can
suffer brain damage, breathing problems, and seizures,
it’s important to test for and treat herpes sores when pregnant.
There is a misconception that when you discover you have
herpes, you or your partner has cheated.
This is often not the case.
It is very difficult to determine how and when herpes
was acquired because the virus can lie dormant for years.
Can I Get The Herpes STD Again?
There is no getting genital herpes again because unfortunately, herpes is for life.
There is no cure and the virus remains in your body forever.
You may or may not continue to experience outbreaks
intermittently, but the virus never leaves the body.
If you’ve contracted HSV-2 (genital herpes),
it’s still possible for you to contract HSV-1 (oral herpes), and vice versa.
Is it Contagious?
Yes, herpes is extremely contagious.
The virus is most contagious when symptoms are
present, however, it can still be transmitted even
if there are no visible symptoms at all.
Condoms can help reduce the spread of herpes,
but as they do not entirely protect from skin-to-skin contact of affected areas, there is still a risk.
Who Is at Risk?
Anyone who is sexually active can get genital herpes.
That being said, certain activities can put you
at a higher risk for contracting certain STDs.
Herpes specifically is a very contagious and extremely
common STD, so while certain choices put you
at a higher risk, there is still risk involved in most sexual encounters.
You are at a higher risk of contracting genital herpes if any of the following apply to you:
- Frequent changes in sexual partners
- Frequently engaging in unprotected sex
- Having oral, vaginal, or anal sex with an infected partner
Having other STDs (especially HIV, which reduces the body’s ability to fight off infection)
Prevention & Vaccines
According to the CDC, the best way to
avoid genital herpes is abstinence.
Long-term, monogamous relationships and an emphasis
on consistent condom use are recommended.
Avoid sharing drinks or sex toys with others,
and always have a conversation about your sexual status before engaging in sex.
If your partner is HSV positive, make sure that they
are taking antivirals to suppress outbreaks
which will help prevent you from contracting the virus.
Do not have sex with a partner who is experiencing an outbreak.
Vaccines –Unfortunately, there is no vaccine to protect from contracting herpes.
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